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We’re Scot and Emily, the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications.

Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating and relationship tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of both genders.

If you like the podcasts you’ll love our newsletter. Be sure to get in on it while you’re here. You can also find us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/scotandemily. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at scotandemily@scotandemily.com. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show for the past nineteen years!

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Episode 91 – Our Favorite On-Screen Relationships

29th September, 2026 | Posted in Uncategorized, X & Y On The Fly

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

What do a pair of dating coaches have to say about how couples are presented in TV and movies? Interesting (and hilarious) examples abound.

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Episode 90 – Your Most Authentic Self

23rd July, 2026 | Posted in Uncategorized, X & Y On The Fly

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Is it true that we’re our most authentic self around the people we’re most comfortable with?

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Episode 89 – We Never Outgrow Flirting

14th May, 2026 | Posted in Uncategorized, X & Y On The Fly

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Relationships have a flow to the them over the years, as we move from one phase of our lives together to the next.

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Episode 88 – The Seasons Of Marriage (20 Years In!)

5th March, 2026 | Posted in Uncategorized, X & Y On The Fly

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Relationships have a flow to the them over the years, as we move from one phase of our lives together to the next.

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Episode 87 – The Evolution Of Dating Advice

24th December, 2025 | Posted in Uncategorized, X & Y On The Fly

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Celebrating 20 years of X & Y Communications, how has dating and relationship advice evolved over the past two decades?

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Episode 86 – What If You’re Disappointed?

16th October, 2025 | Posted in X & Y On The Fly

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay - X & Y Communications

If a man and woman are disappointed with each other, the relationship can only be disappointing.

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Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships.

They reach over 300,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 400 media outlets worldwide.

Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children. Their travel blog and podcast are found at www.wingitworldwide.com.

Episode 91 – Our Favorite On-Screen Relationships

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Episode 90 – Your Most Authentic Self

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Episode 89 – We Never Outgrow Flirting

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Episode 88 – The Seasons Of Marriage (20 Years In!)

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Episode 87 – The Evolution Of Dating Advice

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay

Episode 86 – What If You’re Disappointed?

Co-Host: Scot and Emily McKay - X & Y Communications

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